Bendigo Sun

I also find when I am thinking about how another person sees a situation, I am less likely to take personal insult from it. Have you heard that saying that when someone is mean or such, it’s a reflection on them and not on you? I love that! Is the person being short? Maybe they are thinking about a lot of things at once. Have they just snapped? What else is on their plate that they think this interaction is so trivial. There are still times I find it hard to start by thinking 'this wasn't intended to offend me', and it is natural to be defensive and protect myself, but with daily practice being defensive or getting offended is no longer normal for me. On the days when...