BBQ Attire

I feel like last year if I had decided to host a BBQ at my place (well, I didn't have a place, so that wouldn't have happened, but hypothetically) I would have thrown on a pair of jeans and a sweatshirt and life would have been good. Lately however, if you haven't noticed, my wardrobe has been transitioning into more girly, effeminate pieces, and I'm finally feeling right in my clothes. When my hair was super short because I was stubborn and wanted white hair, whether or not it melted off my ends (wow yep, that's me) I wore a lot of punkier outfits to try and fit my hair, but I felt it was more of a costume than me, see here or here . Don't get me wrong, it was a...